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Avant que j'Oublie (Before I Forget) (2008)



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Imprisoned by his past and unable to cope with the loneliness that permeates every aspect of his life, an HIV-afflicted 58-year-old man seals himself up from the world in order to embark on an inward journey in director Jacques Nolot's existential drama. Pierre is desperate to move past the suffering and overcome an unshakable case of writer's block. After ingesting some psychotropic substances in hopes that it will help to clear his mind, Pierre learns that an old friend who had ostensibly stood him up for a lunch appointment has in fact died. In the following days, this desperate lost soul will be forced to contend with the law, meet with a few long-lost friends, and make one last effort to fulfill his greatest fantasies with the help of a kindly gigolo. Perhaps Pierre's primary problem is that he was born of the wrong gender.more
Rating: Unrated
Genre: Art House & International, Drama
Directed By:
Written By: Jacques Nolot
In Theaters:
On DVD: Sep 2, 2008
Strand Releasing - Official Site


Gaetano Weysen-Volli
as le beau gosse du res...
David Kessler
as le psy Manovsky
Jean Pommier
as Georges
Remy Le Fur
as le commissaire prise...
Jean-Bernard Pommier
as Georges le notaire
Lyes Rabia
as Khalid le livreur
Claudine Sainderichi...
as la femme des assuran...
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Critic Reviews for Avant que j'Oublie (Before I Forget)

All Critics (31) | Top Critics (9)

Writer-director-actor Jacques Nolot (below) delivers a bold, searching and open-hearted turn as the subject of this confessional study of life as an elderly gay gent in the French capital.

Full Review… | April 17, 2009
Time Out
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Before I Forget is a film one can admire, but it is not 'likable,' per se, nor does its director wish it to be.

Full Review… | August 1, 2008
San Francisco Chronicle
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Before I Forget is, in the broad sense, 'gay-themed'. But it's also one of the loveliest, most direct and most devastating pictures about aging that I've ever seen.

Full Review… | July 18, 2008
Top Critic

An unblinking portrait of a complicated, solitary gay man who has outlived his working years.

Full Review… | July 18, 2008
New York Times
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It's hardly a rosy picture of what it's like to be gay and 60 in Paris. But it's an engrossing picture.

Full Review… | July 17, 2008
AV Club
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Made on a modest budget this is a brave film from writer-director-star Jacques Nolot who brings an unflinching honesty to his performance.

Full Review… | April 21, 2009
Daily Express

Audience Reviews for Avant que j'Oublie (Before I Forget)

"Before I Forget" is a downbeat character study in narcissism about Pierre(Jacques Nolot, who also wrote and directed), who when younger relied solely on his good looks to get him through life. Nearing 60, the last 24 years HIV Positive, he now has to pay for sex with younger men instead of the other way around. In fact, after a lifetime relying on physical and economical connections alone, he is deeply lonely and a series of psychiatrists cannot help him with his depression. Plus, he is not sure if he wants to subject himself to a new triple drug regimen.

Walter M.

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