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Before I Forget

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Before I Forget (2008)

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Reviews Counted:29

Fresh:25

Rotten:4

Average Rating:6.7/10

Rated: Not Rated

Runtime: 1 hr 48 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Jul 18, 2008 Limited

Synopsis: The third in a trilogy of semi-autobiographical films by writer-director Jacques Nolot (PORN THEATER), BEFORE I FORGET is a harsh and darkly deadpan character study at the intersection of aging,... The third in a trilogy of semi-autobiographical films by writer-director Jacques Nolot (PORN THEATER), BEFORE I FORGET is a harsh and darkly deadpan character study at the intersection of aging, homosexuality and prostitution. Pierre (played by Nolot himself) is an HIV-positive male escort on the precarious precipice of 60, set adrift by the death of his longtime sugar daddy. When his ex-lover's family cuts Pierre out of the will, the hustler's prospects for a comfortable twilight are thrown into jeopardy. Too old to get a new patron and too long steeped in the life of selling sex to find a new career, Pierre is increasingly resigned to awaiting his own death. In his inability to move forward, he instead begins to look back: he visits fellow hustlers (hiring the younger ones as sexual companions), reminisces with a therapist about his recently ended "arrangement," and finally begins to write his memoirs. Seething with Nolot's trademark lack of romance, BEFORE I FORGET nonetheless achieves profound serenity despite its warnings of the perils of age. While Pierre's situation is desperate, Nolot's performance and direction create an overall atmosphere of acceptance; what the elderly escort loses in optimism, he makes up for in awareness. Nolot self-deprecatingly reveals his own naked body not only to make clear Pierre's withering assets (highly damning in his chosen line of work), but also to hint at a sense of brazen self-assuredness--a gift, if the only one, of the character's advancing years. The filmmaker's stark, minimalist visuals and Pierre's wry, ruminating dialogue depict a life that may have lost purpose, but will never lack meaning. [More]

Starring: Jacques Nolot, Jean-Pol Dubois, Marc Rioufol, Bastien d'Asnieres

Starring: Jacques Nolot, Jean-Pol Dubois, Marc Rioufol, Bastien d'Asnieres, Gaetano Weysen-Volli, Bruno Moneglia, David Kessler, Remy Le Fur, Jean Pommier

Director: Jacques Nolot

Director: Jacques Nolot
Producer: Pauline Duhault
Composer: Gustave Malher
Studio: Strand Releasing

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There is not a single laugh or really emotionally involving moment one can cling to here.

Full Review Source: Film Journal International | comment 2 Comments
07/14/08
David Noh
David Noh
Film Journal International

It has the merit of drawing you into this depressing world with stoic realism. It’s not, however, a bundle of fun to watch.

Full Review Source: This is London | comment Comment
04/17/09
This is London

Made on a modest budget this is a brave film from writer-director-star Jacques Nolot who brings an unflinching honesty to his performance.

Full Review Source: Daily Express | comment Comment
04/21/09
Allan Hunter
Allan Hunter
Daily Express

Before I Forget turns out to be pretty watchable, if sobering, with a fine eye for the absurdities its situations generate.

Full Review Source: Guardian [UK] | comment Comment
04/17/09
Andrew Pulver
Andrew Pulver
Guardian [UK]

It doesn't add up to much as a story, but as an account of a demi-monde defiant in its loucheness and loneliness it has its moments of odd grace.

Full Review Source: Independent | comment Comment
04/17/09
Anthony Quinn
Anthony Quinn
Independent

This isn’t gay self-hatred, but an authentic unnerving portrait; it dares to oppose cinema's false romanticism with ruthless honesty.

Full Review Source: New York Press | comment Comment
07/16/08
Armond White
Armond White
New York Press

Writer-director-actor Jacques Nolot (below) delivers a bold, searching and open-hearted turn as the subject of this confessional study of life as an elderly gay gent in the French capital.

Full Review Source: Time Out | comment Comment
04/17/09
David Jenkins
David Jenkins
Time Out

Before I Forget is a film one can admire, but it is not 'likable,' per se, nor does its director wish it to be.

Full Review Source: San Francisco Chronicle | comment Comment
08/01/08
David Wiegand
David Wiegand
San Francisco Chronicle

an intense character study

Full Review Source: Filmcritic.com | comment Comment
10/02/08
Don Willmott
Don Willmott
Filmcritic.com

What saves Before I Forget from unenlightening depression is not just Nolot's refusal to beg for audience pity, but also his dry sense of humor.

Full Review Source: Slant Magazine | comment Comment
07/15/08
Fernando F. Croce
Fernando F. Croce
Slant Magazine

It's a simple-looking film with a complicated center. But there's a kind of sadness in the film that remains untapped, perhaps because Pierre himself isn't ready for it.

Full Review Source: Combustible Celluloid | comment Comment
07/17/08
Jeffrey M. Anderson
Jeffrey M. Anderson
Combustible Celluloid

A sombre description of age and regret delivered with a deceptively light touch. Wry, tender, full of sympathy and wonderfully acted by Jacques Nolot.

Full Review Source: Channel 4 Film | comment Comment
04/17/09
Jon Fortgang
Jon Fortgang
Channel 4 Film

[Jacques] Nolot writes, directs, and stars as Pierre Pruez, an HIV-positive bottom boy-no-longer who navigates his ruined life and beauty with aplomb.

Full Review Source: House Next Door | comment Comment
04/19/08
Keith Uhlich
Keith Uhlich
House Next Door

[A] strikingly different and oddly funny French drama about a 60-year-old former hustler-turned-writer whose later years aren't exactly golden.

Full Review Source: TV Guide's Movie Guide | comment Comment
07/18/08
Ken Fox
Ken Fox
TV Guide's Movie Guide

With verbose and eloquent characters (let alone the fog of cigarette smoke), Before I Forget won't easily shake off the label of a "French film," and all that that implies.

Full Review Source: Film-Forward.com | comment Comment
07/18/08
Kent Turner
Kent Turner
Film-Forward.com

The visuals are stunning, as is the use of music...unforgettable.

Full Review Source: Reeling Reviews | comment Comment
08/04/08
Laura Clifford
Laura Clifford
Reeling Reviews

Third installment in Jacques Nolot's trilogy on the pragmatic side of gay life finds the straight-shooting poet of matter-of-fact sexual transactions in fine narrative form, exhibiting his aging body and mindset without a trace of vanity.

Full Review Source: Variety | comment Comment
05/24/07
Lisa Nesselson
Lisa Nesselson
Variety

Geriatrically paced but genuinely compassionate, Before I Forget introduces a world of ageing bodies, fading libidos and lives spent in thrall to fleeting pleasures.

Full Review Source: Total Film | comment Comment
04/17/09
Matt Glasby
Matt Glasby
Total Film

Not a lot of ground is covered, but that might just be the point. The end of days are near, and the film is the interim itself, watching a man wind down ever so slowly while trying for a few last gasps to stave it off.

Full Review Source: Boxoffice Magazine | comment Comment
07/18/08
Matthew Nestel
Matthew Nestel
Boxoffice Magazine

Nolot’s portrait of senescence isn’t about rainbow visions; his film, one of the most honest, courageous and witty of the year, instead looks at decay, insufferable loss and humiliation--all endured...with defiant, wilfull abjection.

Full Review Source: Time Out New York | comment Comment
07/16/08
Melissa Anderson
Melissa Anderson
Time Out New York
 
 
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