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Monogamy (2011)



Average Rating: 5.5/10
Critic Reviews: 10
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Increasingly anxious about his impending marriage to Nat (Rashida Jones) and thoroughly bored with his day job as a wedding photographer, Theo (Chris Messina) establishes a hobby: he's hired by clients to clandestinely snap voyeuristic photos of them as they go about their days. Things go smoothly until a sexy exhibitionist (Meital Dohan) leads him into an all-consuming obsession. As Theo stalks her day and night, the woman's mysterious public trysts send him reeling, forcing him to confront



Dana Adam Shapiro, Evan M. Wiener

May 17, 2011


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The conceit is a decent idea for a thriller, if not a terribly original one, but Shapiro loses the rhythm with a plodding story and a pat ending we can see coming a mile away.

March 31, 2011 Full Review Source: Toronto Star
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Monogamy is a tough little movie. And a good one.

March 25, 2011 Full Review Source: Detroit News
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There are certain filmmakers who should have their Cassavetes card revoked, and on the evidence of "Monogamy,'' Dana Adam Shapiro has joined their ranks.

March 24, 2011 Full Review Source: Boston Globe
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Shapiro puts his own stamp on voyeur cinema.

March 17, 2011 Full Review Source: Los Angeles Times
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Despite the ominous feel, this is a mystery about losing or gaining lives and unknown detours.

March 16, 2011 Full Review Source: New York Daily News
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With modest resources, some nice digital camerawork and an appealing cast -- the likable Ms. Jones draws you in easily -- Mr. Shapiro keeps you engaged even when his story falters.

March 11, 2011 Full Review Source: New York Times
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Monogamy asks us to root for lovers who seem disinterested in their own future.

June 12, 2011 Full Review Source: What Would Toto Watch?
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I walked away from the film disappointed, but there are some powerful ideas and performances buried somewhere in here, underneath the performance art itches.

May 30, 2011 Full Review Source:

This indie film about a young couple with various commitment issues is written with a lot of snap, crackle and pop culture cool.

April 1, 2011 Full Review Source: Jam! Movies
Jam! Movies

Jones has little to do besides look fed up, and justifiably so.

April 1, 2011 Full Review Source: eye WEEKLY

Despite the pseudo-vérité style, the convincing improvised dialogue, and its intimations of Blow-Up and The Conversation, Monogamy never quite makes a full commitment.

March 25, 2011 Full Review Source: Boston Phoenix
Boston Phoenix

The real star of the film, however, is Shapiro who, despite treading on marginally derivative subject matter, demonstrates a solid sense of style and a refreshingly delicate hand with actors.

March 22, 2011 Full Review Source: Boxoffice Magazine
Boxoffice Magazine

You may just want to forget about any sort of cinematic monogamy and find another movie to see.

March 18, 2011 Full Review Source: Back Stage | Comment (1)
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Demonstrates what you miss in a relationship when you're lost in your own head, and what might not be there when you come back.

March 17, 2011 Full Review Source: RedEye

Music supervisor Bernheim and DP Doug Emmett are able to choreograph the action in conjunction with the music to generate fantastic resonance in the scenes.

March 16, 2011 Full Review Source: Monsters and Critics
Monsters and Critics

A bit dirty and scattered, the film fails to offer any payoff for its crawling plot and salacious promises.

March 16, 2011 Full Review Source: New York Press
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Monogamy is surprising for how well it tackles themes we thought had been fully examined on film.

March 11, 2011 Full Review Source:

A thoughtful and engrossing character study.

March 11, 2011 Full Review Source: Cinematical

Audience Reviews for Monogamy

In "Monogamy," Theo(Chris Messina), a photographer, and Nat(Rashida Jones), a guitarist, may not have much but they have each other.(Theo also plays the piano but has no wish to get up in front an audience like Nat does.) In three and a half months, they will be married, despite his father giving them grief over the lack of money they make. For Theo, that comes from photographing weddings and a side business where he pseudo-surreptitiously takes photos of clients. The latest is Penny(Meital Dohan) who tends to be more revealing than originally imagined.

"Monogamy" gets off to a fine start with its natural performances. It also provides some incisive commentary on all the nonsense and stress that go along with getting married. And then after an improbable plot point, it just runs out of ideas and steam.(Even before this, any scene involving Theo's friends was sucking the oxygen out of the room.) After a while, I was so desperate for any sign of life that I would have happily accepted any cliche you could think of, but no luck there, either. In the end, the movie gets the tone of sexual frustration right while at the same time making the audience extremely frustrated.
May 30, 2012
Walter M.

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Dana Adam Shapiro is best known for the exciting and inspiring documentary, MURDER BALL, for which he received an Academy Award nomination 5 years ago. MONOGAMY is his narrative directorial debut, and was an Independent Spirit Award nominee this year for Best First Screenplay.

Although the film features two very appealing leads in Chris Messina and Rashida Jones, I wish I could report that Shapiro's transition to drama is a triumph, but there's just not a lot going on in this film. Anyone who has ever seen BLOW UP will recognize the story of a photographer who becomes unusually obsessed with his subject. Here, Messina is that photographer who is engaged to Jones and begins to doubt their relationship when he becomes more and more fixated on a woman he's been paid to photograph from afar.

The film is spare, quiet, and told entirely from the point of view of the male gaze. It's all about how Messina's character sees women and questions his own ability to stay true to the woman he's about to marry. Messina holds the screen well, but is given very little to do here except look at a LOT of people and photos.

Jones, does some fine, subtle work here but her character is too conveniently sidelined midway through the film, and never really recovers from it. For a while there, it looked like we were going to participate in her obsessions with men, but it never really comes to pass. I've become such a fan of her work from THE OFFICE, PARKS AND RECREATION, and THE SOCIAL NETWORK. She never overdoes things and always creates credible modern women. One climactic scene in particular, where our leads confront each other, plays out beautifully with the rhythms of how a couple really argues. No big histrionics, just quiet forcefulness.

Like so many unambitious indies of this sort, there's a relentlessly probing handheld camera aesthetic, and quiet moodiness....and little else. There's a little surprise twist late in the game which was ridiculously telegraphed early on, so boo hiss to that!

Some humans mate for life, but my "relationship" with this heartfelt but shallow film pretty much ended as soon as the credits rolled. A forgettable trick if you will.
March 5, 2011
Glenn Gaylord

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