The subject of swinging still seems ripe for a documentary -- just not this one.
Sex With Strangers (2002)
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Synopsis: SEX WITH STRANGERS focuses on swinging--or couples engaging openly in sex with other, often multiple, partners. Filmed on digital video over a year by filmmakers Joe and Harry Gantz (HBO's Taxicab... SEX WITH STRANGERS focuses on swinging--or couples engaging openly in sex with other, often multiple, partners. Filmed on digital video over a year by filmmakers Joe and Harry Gantz (HBO's Taxicab Confessions), the film observes two couples and and a trio who partake in what is known by insiders as "The Lifestyle." Twentysomethings Calvin and Sarah opened up their relationship to Julie and include her as a permanent fixture to their practices. Married thirtysomething medical professionals James and Theresa spend their free time cruising bars and clubs in their R.V. looking for potential lovers, then discussing their experiences the day after. Southerners Shannon and Gerard met when he was 32 and she was 17, married, then tried swinging when it was suggested by a marriage counselor. Though what is presented is fairly explicit, a minimal amount of sex is actually shown in Gantz's film. Instead, SEX WITH STRANGERS chooses to examine the manner in which swinging affects an otherwise committed relationship--and the result appears to be determined by the emotional constitution of the participants. Calvin's emotional distance appears to be the undoing of sensitive Sarah, while James and Theresa could be an advertisement for The Lifestyle. Problems between Shannon and Gerard, however, appear to be beyond anything that any amount of additional partners could ever repair. [More]
Director: Joe Gantz, Harry Gantz
Director: Joe Gantz, Harry Gantz
Producer: Joe Gantz, Harry Gantz
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Reviews for Sex With Strangers
It leers, offering next to little insight into its intriguing subject.
Sex With Strangers will shock many with its unblinking frankness. But what is missing from it all is a moral. What is the filmmakers’ point? Why did they deem it necessary to document all this emotional misery?
It's a documentary that says that the alternate sexuality meant to set you free may require so much relationship maintenance that celibacy can start looking good.
If you want to see a train wreck that you can’t look away from, then look no further, because here it is.
While we see a lot of clammy groping and creepy parties, we also witness the couples going through their inevitable emotional traumas even as they struggle to sublimate their spiritual needs into sex.
I didn't find much fascination in the swinging. What they're doing is a matter of plumbing arrangements and mind games, of no erotic or sensuous charge. But that they are doing it is thought-provoking.
A film that forces you to bring along and confront your own sexual mores, whether you like it or not.
Even a hardened voyeur would require the patience of Job to get through this interminable, shapeless documentary about the swinging subculture.
It's the element of condescension, as the filmmakers look down on their working-class subjects from their lofty perch, that finally makes Sex With Strangers, which opens today in the New York metropolitan area, so distasteful.
As a thoughtful and unflinching examination of an alternative lifestyle, Sex with Strangers is a success.
Couples titillated by the possibility of swinging will probably leave the theater gripping each other's hands a little more tightly.
The result is more depressing than liberating, but it's never boring.
Finally, a movie for people who just can't get enough Jerry Springer.
If you've ever entertained the notion of doing what the title of this film implies, what Sex With Strangers actually shows may put you off the idea forever.
You emerge dazed, confused as to whether you've seen pornography or documentary.
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