RottenTomatoes.com
Log In | Register | What is RT?
Check out the new RT Community
  • Home
  • Movies
  • DVD
  • Celebrities
  • News
  • Critics
  • Trailers & Pictures
  • CommunityBeta
  • Box Office
  • | In Theaters
  • | Opening
  • | Upcoming
  • | Best Of
  • | Certified Fresh
  • | Showtimes
RT Search Powered by Google
help icon Enhanced RT
searches on Google
Click here to turn on enhanced search results from RT on your Google searches.
 
Movies / On DVD / We Don't Live Here Anymore
We Don't Live Here Anymore

Rate this Movie Help Icon

  • Write a Review
  • Read Reviews
  • Add to List
  • Get this Movie
  • Buy Poster External Icon
  • Visit Official Site External Icon
Bookmark and Share

We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)

  • T-Meter Critics
  • Top Critics
  • RT Community
  • My Critics
  • My Friends
  • DVD
65 %
Tomatometer
Template ImageTemplate Image

How does the Tomatometer work Help Icon

Reviews Counted:122

Fresh:79

Rotten:43

Average Rating:6.4/10

Consensus: A potent portrait of two couples with broken marriages.

Rated: R

Runtime: 1 hr 43 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Aug 13, 2004 Limited

Box Office: $1,904,214

Synopsis: Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a... Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a married man with his best friend’s wife and how their liaison upsets the delicate balance of relationships, culminating in a fling between their spouses. Unfolding from four alternating viewpoints, the story captures the paradoxical actions of loving parents determined to save marriages they secretly long to escape, as the couples struggle through their emotional and sexual entanglement. With a wry, knowing humor, WE DON’T LIVE HERE ANYMORE reveals the perverse logic of infidelity -- and the complicity, denial and occasional cruelty that can accompany it. College instructors in a small university town, Jack Linden and Hank Evans have an easygoing friendship involving runs between classes and drinks at the pub after work. Jack’s wife Terry is best friends with Hank’s Edith, and the four have dinner parties where, once the kids have gone to bed, the wine flows freely and the record collection is in constant rotation. But the Evanses and the Lindens are not the happy couples they appear to be. For Jack and Terry, the everyday tribulations of being parents of young children trying to make ends meet have taken their toll on the once passionate couple. And Hank, a self-absorbed writer at heart, is fond of his daughter and family life, but not all that interested in monogamy, it turns out. Trying to find a way to make her marriage work under the new circumstances, Edith turns to Jack for comfort. What begins as a playfully lascivious affair erupts into a season of infidelity, leaving all four to sift through the emotional wreckage to find their way home. -- © Warner Independent Pictures [More]

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Director: John Curran

Director: John Curran
Screenwriter: Larry Gross
Producer: Harvey Kahn, Jonas Goodman, Naomi Watts
Composer: Michael Convertino
Studio: Warner Independent

[See More Credits]

Get This Movie

Rent DVD
 
 

Click on the "ADD" button to put this movie into your Netflix queue.

 
 
Buy DVD
 
 
Release:

Dec 14, 2004

[DVD Details]
 
 
  • Jack and Terry. Hank and Edith. They're married couples and best friends with much in common. Jack and Hank are professors at Cedar County College. Terry and Edith are stay-at-home moms. And Jack and Edith are secret lovers.
  • Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause and Naomi Watts play the interlocked foursome, pushing their characters into uncharted realms of anger, confrontation and lust - and making decisions that may or may not let love slip away.
  • Source: Warner Home Video
  •  
     
     
     

    Reviews for We Don't Live Here Anymore

    • T-Meter Critics
    • Top Critics
    • RT Community
    • My Critics
    • My Friends
    • DVD
     
     
    1 - 20 (sorted by fresh rating)
    Text View | 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 >> >|
    Arrange By:Fresh | Rotten | Comments | Name | Source | Date
     
     

    This talky drama about troubled couples features actors born to deliver realistic, chatty material like this.

    Full Review Source: E! Online | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    E! Online

    Click to read the article

    Full Review Source: Independent | comment Comment
    06/17/05
    Independent

    Click to read the article

    Full Review Source: Film Threat | comment Comment
    12/06/05
    Film Threat

    The murk and mystery of marriage, adultery and friendship have seldom been illuminated with such harsh precision.

    Full Review Source: New York Times | comment Comment
    08/12/04
    A.O. Scott
    A.O. Scott
    New York Times
    Top Critic Icon Top Critic

    [Y]our expectations of climax, resolution, consolation fall away and you're quite simply present in every detail of every moment.

    Full Review Source: Blogcritics.org | comment Comment
    11/19/04
    Alan Dale
    Alan Dale
    Blogcritics.org

    I was fully absorbed in the characters and their casually outrageous behavior.

    Full Review Source: New York Observer | comment Comment
    09/09/04
    Andrew Sarris
    Andrew Sarris
    New York Observer
    Top Critic Icon Top Critic

    ... an artful but unblinking relationship drama ...

    Full Review Source: Los Angeles CityBeat | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    Andy Klein
    Andy Klein
    Los Angeles CityBeat

    We Don't Live Here Anymore is marked by the rich characterization of four starkly different people.

    Full Review Source: Boxoffice Magazine | comment Comment
    06/06/04
    Annlee Ellingson
    Annlee Ellingson
    Boxoffice Magazine

    Click to read the article

    Full Review Source: Movie Gazette | comment Comment
    06/21/05
    Anton Bitel
    Anton Bitel
    Movie Gazette

    Audiences may or may not feel that the insights skillfully shared justify this acutely claustrophobic microcosm of domestic misery.

    Full Review Source: culturevulture.net | comment Comment
    08/12/04
    Arthur Lazere
    Arthur Lazere
    culturevulture.net

    Watts manages to make her Edith seem genuinely remorseful about her actions but unable to stop, and Ruffalo puts a believable hint of guilt in Jack's face that he carries through the film.

    Full Review Source: Arizona Republic | comment Comment
    09/02/04
    Bill Muller
    Bill Muller
    Arizona Republic
    Top Critic Icon Top Critic

    The revelation here is Dern, whose fierce, intensely moving portrayal of a woman struggling to hold on to what she cares about is the movie’s most urgent anchor of sympathy.

    Full Review Source: FilmStew.com | comment Comment
    08/14/04
    Brett Buckalew
    Brett Buckalew
    FilmStew.com

    A decent ending would've gone a long way to making this good film near perfect.

    Full Review Source: FilmJerk.com | comment Comment
    09/01/04
    Brian Orndorf
    Brian Orndorf
    FilmJerk.com

    Beautifully, optimistically depressing.

    Full Review Source: Jam! Movies | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Bruce Kirkland
    Bruce Kirkland
    Jam! Movies

    Affecting and sincere.

    Full Review Source: Los Angeles Times | comment Comment
    08/12/04
    Carina Chocano
    Carina Chocano
    Los Angeles Times
    Top Critic Icon Top Critic

    With a hungry, compulsive, tender, angry, and passionate performance, Ruffalo has definitely shed the shiftless stoner typecast.

    Full Review Source: AboutFilm.com | comment Comment
    08/15/04
    Carlo Cavagna
    Carlo Cavagna
    AboutFilm.com

    Ruffalo, Watts and especially Dern are splendid, but Krause lets Clark down with a performance that feels analyzed rather than lived.

    Full Review Source: St. Paul Pioneer Press | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Chris Hewitt (St. Paul)
    Chris Hewitt (St. Paul)
    St. Paul Pioneer Press

    An intricate drama that derives tragedy from emotional indifference, immaturity and fatigue, qualities that have spelled doom for more than a few marriages.

    Full Review Source: Dallas Morning News | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Chris Vognar
    Chris Vognar
    Dallas Morning News
    Top Critic Icon Top Critic

    We Don't Live Here Anymore is a revelation. One rarely sees American-made movies that are so unafraid to explore emotional cruelty and portray the consequences without positing easy answers or attaching happy endings.

    Full Review Source: USA Today | comment Comment
    08/12/04
    Claudia Puig
    Claudia Puig
    USA Today

    Annoying and familiar, the adults settle into sameness, as if too tired to imagine beyond it.

    Full Review Source: PopMatters | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    Cynthia Fuchs
    Cynthia Fuchs
    PopMatters
     
     
    1 - 20 (sorted by fresh rating)
    Text View | 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 >> >|
    See All

    More DVDs

    Close
    Top Rentals
    Tomatometer Percentage Movie
    77% 77% The Hangover
    88% 88% Inglourious Basterds
    66% 66% Public Enemies
    24% 24% G-Force
    44% 44% Night at the Museum: B…

    More Rentals…

    New On DVD This Week
    Tomatometer Percentage Movie
    90% 90% District 9
    86% 86% 500 Days of Summer
    63% 63% Extract
    06% 06% All About Steve
    78% 78% It Might Get Loud

    More New Releases…

    See All

    RT On Current TV

    The Rotten Tomatoes Show on Current TV

    DIRECTV 358 | Comcast 107 | DISH Network 196 | More...

    Learn how you can be part of the show

    More...

    What’s Hot On RT

    Best of the Decade

    Best of the Decade

    Find out what movies made our list!

    Iron Man 2

    Iron Man 2

    Watch the brand new trailer now!

    Clash of the Titans

    Clash of the Titans

    Prepare to Clash with Titans in this trailer!

    Total Recall

    Total Recall

    RT looks back on Jude Law's best movies!

    Other News

    Close
    • Top Stories
    • Popular
    • Interviews
     
     

    Comments

     
     
    Top Stories
    Headlines Comments
      
    • Weekly Ketchup: Peter Jackson's Secret Sci-Fi Project
    69
    • New Toy Story 3 Clip, Photos Posted Source: Slashfilm
    24
    • Danny Trejo Talks Machete, Possible Sequels Source: Collider.com
    14
    • It's Official: Jackass 3-D Coming in 2010 Source: Collider.com
    16
    • Bryan Singer Returning to X-Men for First Class Source: Superhero Hype
    102
    • Mark Strong Talks Kick-Ass, John Carter, and Robin Hood Source: Collider.com
    1
    • How Avatar Happened: The Path to Innovation Source: CinemaBlend.com
    19
    • Rob Marshall Says Pirates 4 Is Still a Maybe Source: ComingSoon.net
    32
    • ET Teases Iron Man 2 Teaser Source: Collider.com
    28
    • Tobey Maguire Refutes Hobbit Rumors Source: Hollywood Reporter
    9
    Popular
    Headlines Comments
      
    • Box Office Guru Wrapup: Avatar Soars to #1 Spot
    261
    • RT's Best of the Decade!
    153
    • Brittany Murphy: 1977-2009
    115
    • Five Favorite Films With Peter Jackson
    69
    • Total Recall: Jude Law's Best Movies
    56
    • Critics Consensus: Sherlock Holmes Is Worth Investigating
    33
    • RT on DVD & Blu-Ray: District 9 and (500) Days of Summer
    32
    • Weekly Ketchup: Peter Jackson's Secret Sci-Fi Project
    23
    • Friday Harvest: Sherlock Holmes, Toy Story 3, and more!
    10
    • What We're Watching on Blu-ray from Disney!
    9
    Interviews
    Headlines Comments
      
    • Five Favorite Films With Peter Jackson
    69
    • Robert Downey Jr. talks Sherlock Holmes & Iron Man 2 - RT Interview
    21
    • Director Ruben Fleischer Talks Zombieland
    2
    • "I Don't Hate Women": Lars von Trier on Antichrist
    17
    • Eric Bana talks Love the Beast - RT Interview
    12
    • Fight Club Sound Designer Reflects on Film's 10th Anniversary
    24
    • James Schamus talks Taking Woodstock - RT Interview
    8
    • John Hurt Talks Harry Potter, Quentin Crisp and Alien - The RT Interview
    16
    • Terry Gilliam Talks Doctor Parnassus
    24
    • Wes Anderson Talks Fantastic Mr. Fox - RT Interview
    9
     
     

    Sponsored Links

    Around The Network

    • We Don't Live Here Anymore at Rotten Tomatoes
    • We Don't Live Here Anymore at IGN
    • We Don't Live Here Anymore at AskMen

    Fresh Links

    Featured
    Best Dozen of the Decade
    Best Dozen of the Decade External Link

    Last week, MSN gave us their top 09 films. Now see what their favorites of the decade are!

    Top 50 of 2009
    Top 50 of 2009 External Link

    Here's a list of the 50 best movies of 2009, according to the good people over at Moviefone.

    Santa's Naughty List
    Santa's Naughty List External Link

    Hollywood.com takes a stab at determining who in movies will be on Santa's naughty list in 2009.

    Top 10 Movies of 2009
    Top 10 Movies of 2009 External Link

    TIME chimes in with their own list of the best films released this year.

    Top 20 of the Decade
    Top 20 of the Decade External Link

    Click through to see which movies BuzzSugar placed in their Best-of-Decade list!

    Promos
    Follow RT on Twitter
    Follow RT on Twitter External Link

    Get the latest Tomatometer updates on upcoming movies!

     
     
    About| Site Map| Help| RT To Go| Contact Us| Critics Submission| Linking to RT| Licensing| Movie List| Games| Celebs List| Newsletter
    IGN Logo
    About Us | Advertise | Contact Us | Press | Careers
    IGN | GameSpy | Comrade | Arena | FilePlanet | Direct2Drive | GameSpy Technology
    TeamXbox | Game Sites | VE3D | CheatsCodesGuides | GameStats | GamerMetrics
    AskMen.com | Rotten Tomatoes | GIGA.DE | What They Play | Battlefield Heroes
    By continuing past this page, and by your continued use of this site, you agree to be bound by and abide by the User Agreement.
    Copyright 1998-2009, IGN Entertainment, Inc. | Support | Privacy Policy | User Agreement | Subscribe to RT's XML feed! RSS Feeds
    IGN’s enterprise databases running Oracle, SQL and MySQL are professionally monitored and managed by Pythian Remote DBA.
    Certain product data ©1995-present Muze, Inc. For personal use only. All rights reserved.