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We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)

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Reviews Counted:122

Fresh:79

Rotten:43

Average Rating:6.4/10

Consensus: A potent portrait of two couples with broken marriages.

Rated: R

Runtime: 1 hr 43 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Aug 13, 2004 Limited

Box Office: $1,904,214

Synopsis: Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a... Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a married man with his best friend’s wife and how their liaison upsets the delicate balance of relationships, culminating in a fling between their spouses. Unfolding from four alternating viewpoints, the story captures the paradoxical actions of loving parents determined to save marriages they secretly long to escape, as the couples struggle through their emotional and sexual entanglement. With a wry, knowing humor, WE DON’T LIVE HERE ANYMORE reveals the perverse logic of infidelity -- and the complicity, denial and occasional cruelty that can accompany it. College instructors in a small university town, Jack Linden and Hank Evans have an easygoing friendship involving runs between classes and drinks at the pub after work. Jack’s wife Terry is best friends with Hank’s Edith, and the four have dinner parties where, once the kids have gone to bed, the wine flows freely and the record collection is in constant rotation. But the Evanses and the Lindens are not the happy couples they appear to be. For Jack and Terry, the everyday tribulations of being parents of young children trying to make ends meet have taken their toll on the once passionate couple. And Hank, a self-absorbed writer at heart, is fond of his daughter and family life, but not all that interested in monogamy, it turns out. Trying to find a way to make her marriage work under the new circumstances, Edith turns to Jack for comfort. What begins as a playfully lascivious affair erupts into a season of infidelity, leaving all four to sift through the emotional wreckage to find their way home. -- © Warner Independent Pictures [More]

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Director: John Curran

Director: John Curran
Screenwriter: Larry Gross
Producer: Harvey Kahn, Jonas Goodman, Naomi Watts
Composer: Michael Convertino
Studio: Warner Independent

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  • Jack and Terry. Hank and Edith. They're married couples and best friends with much in common. Jack and Hank are professors at Cedar County College. Terry and Edith are stay-at-home moms. And Jack and Edith are secret lovers.
  • Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause and Naomi Watts play the interlocked foursome, pushing their characters into uncharted realms of anger, confrontation and lust - and making decisions that may or may not let love slip away.
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    This story is like the shot of the passing train that keeps repeating - it's loud, but it's not going anywhere, and the moment that it's gone, you forget you ever saw it.

    Full Review Source: TheMovieChicks.com | comment Comment
    08/27/04
    Cherryl Dawson and Leigh Ann Palone
    Cherryl Dawson and Leigh Ann Palone
    TheMovieChicks.com

    Dramatically slack, the story isn't driven by plot so much as by the slow revelation of character.

    Full Review Source: Houston Chronicle | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Eric Harrison
    Eric Harrison
    Houston Chronicle
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    Ruffalo, Watts and especially Dern are splendid, but Krause lets Clark down with a performance that feels analyzed rather than lived.

    Full Review Source: St. Paul Pioneer Press | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Chris Hewitt (St. Paul)
    Chris Hewitt (St. Paul)
    St. Paul Pioneer Press

    Much credit goes to the film's four stars, as well as to Curran, who chose them and skillfully directed them.

    Full Review Source: Rochester Democrat and Chronicle | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Jack Garner
    Jack Garner
    Rochester Democrat and Chronicle

    An intricate drama that derives tragedy from emotional indifference, immaturity and fatigue, qualities that have spelled doom for more than a few marriages.

    Full Review Source: Dallas Morning News | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Chris Vognar
    Chris Vognar
    Dallas Morning News
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    We Don't Live Here Anymore manages to get at some difficult truths ... but there's a certain distance to it that prevents it from being a truly heart-wrenching film.

    Full Review Source: Las Vegas Weekly | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Josh Bell
    Josh Bell
    Las Vegas Weekly

    It could have pulled back the rock to reveal the squirmy things living underneath, but instead all we get is the rock.

    Full Review Source: Combustible Celluloid | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Jeffrey M. Anderson
    Jeffrey M. Anderson
    Combustible Celluloid

    Scene by scene, the movie is precise, vibrant, and, for all its turmoil, moving.

    Full Review Source: New Yorker | comment Comment
    08/24/04
    David Denby
    David Denby
    New Yorker
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    Based on two John Irving shorts John Curran's movie feels divided with a condensed narrative that doesn't do justice to the four main characters.**

    Full Review Source: Sympatico.ca | comment Comment
    08/23/04
    Angela Baldassarre
    Angela Baldassarre
    Sympatico.ca

    Somewhere between John Updike and "Knott's Landing," this is suburban angst and adultery, with meaningful glances, inexpressible longing, fumbled groping, and hangovers.

    Full Review Source: Movie Mom at Yahoo! Movies | comment Comment
    08/22/04
    Nell Minow
    Nell Minow
    Movie Mom at Yahoo! Movies

    A terrific performance by Laura Dern is the sole reason to see this pretentious slog through the miserable lives of unlikable people.

    Full Review Source: Reeling Reviews | comment Comment
    08/22/04
    Laura Clifford
    Laura Clifford
    Reeling Reviews

    The four principals are spectacular here, led by Dern's career best effort.

    Full Review Source: San Diego Metropolitan | comment Comment
    08/21/04
    Jean Lowerison
    Jean Lowerison
    San Diego Metropolitan

    A highly charged, poignant study of the imperfections within human nature and the frailty of otherwise powerful love relationships.

    Full Review Source: DustinPutman.com | comment Comment
    08/21/04
    Dustin Putman
    Dustin Putman
    DustinPutman.com

    If you can deal with the muddy footprints, the mess is worth it.

    Full Review Source: Toronto Star | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Geoff Pevere
    Geoff Pevere
    Toronto Star
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    [The] performances stay with you.

    Full Review Source: Seattle Times | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Moira MacDonald
    Moira MacDonald
    Seattle Times

    The acting is fervent, and the insights cut deep.

    Full Review Source: San Francisco Chronicle | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Mick LaSalle
    Mick LaSalle
    San Francisco Chronicle
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    The key problem of this acting exercise is that we can sense what must come, and sadly it does.

    Full Review Source: San Diego Union-Tribune | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    David Elliott
    David Elliott
    San Diego Union-Tribune

    Beautifully, optimistically depressing.

    Full Review Source: Jam! Movies | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Bruce Kirkland
    Bruce Kirkland
    Jam! Movies

    A bookish picture without a book's depth.

    Full Review Source: Globe and Mail | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Rick Groen
    Rick Groen
    Globe and Mail

    Inadequate emotionally and psychologically.

    Full Review Source: Boston Globe | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Wesley Morris
    Wesley Morris
    Boston Globe
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