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We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)

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Reviews Counted:122

Fresh:79

Rotten:43

Average Rating:6.4/10

Consensus: A potent portrait of two couples with broken marriages.

Rated: R

Runtime: 1 hr 43 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Aug 13, 2004 Limited

Box Office: $1,904,214

Synopsis: Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a... Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a married man with his best friend’s wife and how their liaison upsets the delicate balance of relationships, culminating in a fling between their spouses. Unfolding from four alternating viewpoints, the story captures the paradoxical actions of loving parents determined to save marriages they secretly long to escape, as the couples struggle through their emotional and sexual entanglement. With a wry, knowing humor, WE DON’T LIVE HERE ANYMORE reveals the perverse logic of infidelity -- and the complicity, denial and occasional cruelty that can accompany it. College instructors in a small university town, Jack Linden and Hank Evans have an easygoing friendship involving runs between classes and drinks at the pub after work. Jack’s wife Terry is best friends with Hank’s Edith, and the four have dinner parties where, once the kids have gone to bed, the wine flows freely and the record collection is in constant rotation. But the Evanses and the Lindens are not the happy couples they appear to be. For Jack and Terry, the everyday tribulations of being parents of young children trying to make ends meet have taken their toll on the once passionate couple. And Hank, a self-absorbed writer at heart, is fond of his daughter and family life, but not all that interested in monogamy, it turns out. Trying to find a way to make her marriage work under the new circumstances, Edith turns to Jack for comfort. What begins as a playfully lascivious affair erupts into a season of infidelity, leaving all four to sift through the emotional wreckage to find their way home. -- © Warner Independent Pictures [More]

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Director: John Curran

Director: John Curran
Screenwriter: Larry Gross
Producer: Harvey Kahn, Jonas Goodman, Naomi Watts
Composer: Michael Convertino
Studio: Warner Independent

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  • Jack and Terry. Hank and Edith. They're married couples and best friends with much in common. Jack and Hank are professors at Cedar County College. Terry and Edith are stay-at-home moms. And Jack and Edith are secret lovers.
  • Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause and Naomi Watts play the interlocked foursome, pushing their characters into uncharted realms of anger, confrontation and lust - and making decisions that may or may not let love slip away.
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    The movie may leave its audience feeling a little battered ... Still, the film's honesty, along with its refusal to pander to Hollywood happy endings, is well worth the beating.

    Full Review Source: Washington Post | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Michael O'Sullivan
    Michael O'Sullivan
    Washington Post
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    A miserable movie about miserable people having miserable sex.

    Full Review Source: Boston Herald | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Paul Sherman
    Paul Sherman
    Boston Herald

    Too desultory.

    Full Review Source: Chicago Sun-Times | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Roger Ebert
    Roger Ebert
    Chicago Sun-Times
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    The film astutely finds a vivid personality for each character.

    Full Review Source: Washington Post | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Stephen Hunter
    Stephen Hunter
    Washington Post
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    08/19/04
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    Full Review Source: Boston Phoenix | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Boston Phoenix

    These are people whose disappointments and emotional struggle have produced a world of resentment and dishonesty that's unpleasant to visit. There's nothing to make us want to stay there and witness the hurts produced by excruciatingly selfish acts.

    Full Review Source: Seattle Post-Intelligencer | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Paula Nechak
    Paula Nechak
    Seattle Post-Intelligencer

    A crackling, claustrophobic chamber piece.

    Full Review Source: Philadelphia Inquirer | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Steven Rea
    Steven Rea
    Philadelphia Inquirer

    Usually American marital problems are left to the soap operas; it's nice to see them tackled by experts, piercing personas and peeling open hearts.

    Full Review Source: Chicago Tribune | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Michael Wilmington
    Michael Wilmington
    Chicago Tribune
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    A movie as empty as its title. A lot of good acting is going on, but there's nobody home.

    Full Review Source: Atlanta Journal-Constitution | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Eleanor Ringel Gillespie
    Eleanor Ringel Gillespie
    Atlanta Journal-Constitution
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    We Don't Live Here Anymore frames with precision emotional moments in the lives of people who build their own prisons and, over time, plot escapes.

    Full Review Source: Groucho Reviews | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Peter Canavese
    Peter Canavese
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    ...feels like a freshly unearthed treasure from a more sophisticated era. All lingering glances and electrically supercharged silences, it's a tiny film of enormous power.

    Full Review Source: Philadelphia Weekly | comment Comment
    08/18/04
    Sean Burns
    Sean Burns
    Philadelphia Weekly

    Well acted and designed of a piece [but] too diffident and emotionally murky to elicit a sustained reaction. The movie could have benefited from a more proactive script.

    Full Review Source: Entertainment Today | comment Comment
    08/16/04
    Brent Simon
    Brent Simon
    Entertainment Today

    With a hungry, compulsive, tender, angry, and passionate performance, Ruffalo has definitely shed the shiftless stoner typecast.

    Full Review Source: AboutFilm.com | comment Comment
    08/15/04
    Carlo Cavagna
    Carlo Cavagna
    AboutFilm.com

    A sense of unease, of incompleteness, is, I think, the appropriate response to this movie. Instead of trying to fill in the blanks, Curran and Gross leave things open and ambiguous. Just like life.

    Full Review Source: New York Magazine | comment Comment
    08/15/04
    Peter Rainer
    Peter Rainer
    New York Magazine
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    08/14/04
    Jules Brenner
    Jules Brenner
    Cinema Signals

    The revelation here is Dern, whose fierce, intensely moving portrayal of a woman struggling to hold on to what she cares about is the movie’s most urgent anchor of sympathy.

    Full Review Source: FilmStew.com | comment Comment
    08/14/04
    Brett Buckalew
    Brett Buckalew
    FilmStew.com

    Annoying and familiar, the adults settle into sameness, as if too tired to imagine beyond it.

    Full Review Source: PopMatters | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    Cynthia Fuchs
    Cynthia Fuchs
    PopMatters

    An impeccably acted, spiritually draining dissection of adultery in a bucolic college town.

    Full Review Source: TV Guide's Movie Guide | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    Ken Fox
    Ken Fox
    TV Guide's Movie Guide

    Pretty potent.

    Full Review Source: Slate | comment Comment
    08/13/04
    David Edelstein
    David Edelstein
    Slate
     
     
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