Uhm... apparently men are appendages for their penises I guess? I am not saying this is COMPLETELY wrong, but maybe a bit over the top. Hartnett is charming and likeable, but the premise seems a bit weak. There are the usual rom-com misunderstandings, but this is just ridiculous - she is mad at him because he didn't tell her he was abstinate for FORTY DAYS??? Poor baby! He has to go without sex for 40 days. In the old days (I guess I am old?) you might date a person and NEVER sleep with them! Ostensibly this is dating from the man's perspective - but please don't lump me in with these schlubs (roommate, coworkers, bagel guy - OMG! Embarrased to be a man)! And since when is rape a rom com punchline?