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In Spite of Ourselves

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Love comes easy -- relationships don't. When Hannah, a warm and determined Portland, OR baker, crosses paths with Archie, an up-and-coming LA comedian with a habit of dodging commitment, their instant chemistry sparks a whirlwind romance neither expected. But after two blissful weeks together, real life pulls them back to separate cities, forcing them to confront distance, doubts, and their own hilariously messy insecurities. Heartfelt, funny, and deeply relatable, IN SPITE OF OURSELVES follows two imperfect people trying to figure out whether they can move past their fears -- and give love a real chance.

Critics Reviews

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Cortlyn Kelly RogerEbert.com Oct 13, 2026
3/4
The movie never paints magic over the effort its main characters put in; it’s honest about the imperfections of learning how to live alongside another human. Go to Full Review
Louisa Moore Screen Zealots Oct 7, 2026
Doesn’t reinvent the rom-com, but its sweet, slightly messy charm makes for an easy, enjoyable watch (even if it tries a little too hard at times). Go to Full Review
Avi Offer NYC Movie Guru Oct 5, 2026
A heartfelt, honest and charming romantic dramedy. Go to Full Review
Rachel Wagner Rachel's Reviews (YouTube) Oct 2, 2026
tender, sweet, lovely little romance with incredible chemistry. Go to Full Review
Don Shanahan Film Obsessive Oct 1, 2026
4/5
Josh Loeb’s film shines by watching two scared people use their own measures of goodness to find commitment against their challenges and those of their partner, with equal acceptance. Go to Full Review
Keith Garlington Keith & the Movies Aug 18, 2026
4/5
The schmaltz-free storytelling is a nice reminder that stories like this can be told without the crutches of excessive sentimentality and tired formula. For me, that’s what makes “In Spite of Ourselves” stand out most. Go to Full Review
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Audience Reviews

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Elizabeth Oct 4, 2026 Sweet and thoughtful film. See more Tony C Oct 4, 2026 A really touching and wonderful story about the messy business of relationships, falling in love, and finding yourself. unexpected turns that avoid cliches and dig a just a little bit deeper into what makes people really tick. the result is a love story that both celebrates the love between two people and finding acceptance in their love for themselves. See more Itai D @ItaiD Oct 19, 2026 In Spite of Ourselves is a beautiful movie. I loved the characters...literally the whole cast is strong. Portland is a great setting, gritty and beutiful at the same time. the cinematography is gorgeous, the soundtrack is one of the best I have heard in a while. Everything flows really well. It was also refreshing. So many movies right now are built to stir up stressful emotions. This one is tender and about earnest but imperfect people, and I so enjoyed spending time immersed in their story. See more Arne S @RT84075192 Oct 19, 2026 I really liked it. After the screening, there was a Q&A with Josh Loeb, and I was very impressed. He has been a highly successful restaurateur for decades, but decided to pursue a dream he had held since film school: making a feature film of his own. He drew on his life experiences to create a script with appealing characters who are complex, neurotic, and flawed, with a depth not usually seen in romantic comedies. He directed, wrote, and produced the film, and the results are very impressive. I've been in the film business for a long time, and it's rare to see a first-time filmmaker create a movie that is so polished. I think he achieved this in part because he enjoys collaborating with the talented people around him. I'm looking forward to seeing what he does next. See more Birute T. @Btursa Oct 17, 2026 I loved it. It was very sweet and realistic! Great acting and some twists gets you immersed. Few scenes could have been shorter See more Michelle J @RT29503300 Oct 15, 2026 This might replace You've Got Mail as my favorite fall romantic comedy. The characters are complicated and dealing with so much life outside of the central love story, and their challenges make them relatable. The pace was perfect, the dialogue was funny, and the southeast Portland setting was beautiful. Will definitely watch again. See more Read all reviews
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Synopsis Love comes easy -- relationships don't. When Hannah, a warm and determined Portland, OR baker, crosses paths with Archie, an up-and-coming LA comedian with a habit of dodging commitment, their instant chemistry sparks a whirlwind romance neither expected. But after two blissful weeks together, real life pulls them back to separate cities, forcing them to confront distance, doubts, and their own hilariously messy insecurities. Heartfelt, funny, and deeply relatable, IN SPITE OF OURSELVES follows two imperfect people trying to figure out whether they can move past their fears -- and give love a real chance.
Director
Josh Loeb
Producer
Josh Loeb, Michelle Lewitt, Gabe Mayhan, Tim Harms
Screenwriter
Josh Loeb
Genre
Comedy, Romance
Original Language
English
Release Date (Theaters)
Oct 2, 2026, Limited
Runtime
1h 37m
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