In the Family (2012)



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In the town of Martin, Tennessee, Chip Hines, a precocious six year old, has only known life with his two dads, Cody and Joey. And a good life it is. When Cody dies suddenly in a car accident, Joey and Chip struggle to find their footing again. Just as they begin to, Cody's will reveals that he named his sister as Chip's guardian. The years of Joey's acceptance into the family unravel as Chip is taken away from him. In his now solitary home life, Joey searches for a solution. The law is not on his side, but friends are. Armed with their comfort and inspired by memories of Cody, Joey finds a path to peace with the family and closer to his son. -- (C) Official Site
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Patrick Wang
as Joey Williams
Trevor St. John
as Cody Hines
Sebastian Brodziak
as Chip Hines
Brian Murray
as Paul Hawks
Susan Kellermann
as Marge Hawks
Park Overall
as Sally Hines
Kelly McAndrew
as Eileen Robey
Peter Hermann
as Dave Robey
Eugene Brell
as Jefferson
Eisa Davis
as Anne
Zoe Winters
as Helen
Elaine Bromka
as Gloria
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Critic Reviews for In the Family

All Critics (25) | Top Critics (11)

To see it is to sit there for long stretches amazed at how clumsy, fake and misguided it is. But then, five minutes later you might easily be riveted and moved by its awkward brilliance.

Full Review… | December 6, 2012
San Francisco Chronicle
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Trevor St. John is cute and broody-mouthed as the deceased lover; Wang, the movie's writer-director, is touchingly, disarmingly open; and the kid, Sebastian Banes, is adorable.

Full Review… | November 13, 2012
Village Voice
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No doubt you've noticed the nearly three-hour runtime, but please don't let that dissuade you: Every moment counts in this gripping tale ...

Full Review… | November 13, 2012
Time Out
Top Critic

As Wang holds us in rapt attention, not only with his steady pacing, but with the hard realism of the screenplay, the characters retain a coldness that never breaks.

Full Review… | May 31, 2012
Globe and Mail
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Wang chooses gentle storytelling as a tool of persuasion rather than soap-box hectoring to make his point: that love - in all its forms - can transcend the greatest obstacles.

Full Review… | May 31, 2012
Toronto Star
Top Critic

This deeply humanistic, profoundly touching work representing independent cinema at its finest should be seen by far wider audiences.

Full Review… | May 5, 2012
Hollywood Reporter
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Audience Reviews for In the Family

Maybe one of the most poignant movies I have seen. Definitely worth the long length. Patrick Wang is well worth watching in the future as both a director and as an actor.

Randall Rieger
Randall Rieger

The potential for over-the-top, weepy melodrama with this kind of material is obvious, but Patrick Wang opts for quiet realism. While the film sidesteps nearly all of the "movie-of the week" cliches, the glacial pace could be difficult for some people to endure (nearly three hours worth of this story probably isn't necessary), fortunately Wang makes the important moments count, so if you are patient "In the Family" is quite rewarding. Another thing that helps distinguish this film is its subtle demonstration of "Bourgeois Homophobia" (The kind of passive aggressive discrimination that's becoming more common in America than the violent hatred of old) and how perhaps the best response to it isn't righteous anger or protest . . . but rather impassioned, mature discussion and forgiveness.

Alec Barniskis
Alec Barniskis

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An acutely felt, altogether devastating family drama as intimate and affecting as it is sprawling and untamed.

Lee Mayo
Lee Mayo

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