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Tying the Knot (2003)

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Average Rating: 6.8/10
Critic Reviews: 12
Fresh: 10 | Rotten: 2

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Average Rating: 3.4/5
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Documentary filmmaker Jim de Sève explores the many issues behind the controversial topic of gay marriage in Tying the Knot, a film which also offers a look at how the legal and societal structures of marriage have changed with time. Tying the Knot focus on two cases of long-term gay couples whose passing led to legal squabbles between the members of their respective families over issues which would have been comparatively clear-cut if the couples had been able to legally marry. In addition, de

Unrated, 1 hr. 25 min.

Documentary, Drama, Special Interest

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May 31, 2005

IDP Distribution

All Critics (42) | Top Critics (12) | Fresh (31) | Rotten (4) | DVD (3)

Personalizes the political with two heart-rending real-life cases.

October 14, 2004 Full Review Source: Atlanta Journal-Constitution | Comment
Atlanta Journal-Constitution
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It may not be the most meticulously crafted documentary in the world, but what Tying the Knot lacks in finesse it compensates for in making a heartfelt case for the hot-button topic of same-sex marriage.

October 7, 2004 Comment
Hollywood Reporter
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Has the good sense to take a large step back from the emotional debate surrounding the issue and scrutinize the history of marriage itself.

October 6, 2004 Comment
New York Times
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The subject is worth exploring -- unfortunately, de Seve does so in a cut-and-dried manner that never explains why these two couples were able to stay together for so long.

October 1, 2004 Comment
New York Post
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Documentarian Jim de Seve's cogent pro-gay-marriage argument appeals equally to emotion and reason.

October 1, 2004 Full Review Source: Washington Post | Comment
Washington Post
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The movie, directed by Jim de Seve, personalizes a ferocious political debate, never losing its (frequently sad) human face.

October 1, 2004 Full Review Source: Boston Globe | Comment
Boston Globe
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Tying the Knot is a flawed work that succeeds on the merits of its highly touching personal stories and its irrefutable debate.

August 20, 2005 Full Review Source: eFilmCritic.com | Comment
eFilmCritic.com

Difficult logic to argue against...

June 14, 2005 Full Review Source: Now Playing Magazine | Comment

Offers a refreshingly strong and lucid examination of the issue, even if it's edited a bit chaotically, cross-cutting between its various strands.

April 6, 2005 Full Review Source: Shadows on the Wall | Comment
Shadows on the Wall

An empowering, optimistic experience, humanizing the issue through poignant profiles.

November 12, 2004 Full Review Source: Oregonian | Comment
Oregonian

Not only offers useful information but contains moments of gravity and pathos that genuinely touch the heart.

October 25, 2004 Full Review Source: One Guy's Opinion | Comment
One Guy's Opinion

A quietly effective exploration of the divisive subject of gay marriage in America.

October 22, 2004 Full Review Source: Seattle Times | Comment
Seattle Times

Regardless which side of the argument you are on, Tying the Knot is worth seeing for its political relevance and the human stories of those caught in the middle.

October 19, 2004 Full Review Source: San Diego Metropolitan | Comment
San Diego Metropolitan

It does a decent job of taking a broad issue and showing the impact it has on individuals.

October 15, 2004 Full Review Source: TheMovieChicks.com | Comment

Probably the least controversial "controversial" documentary ever made.

October 11, 2004 Full Review Source: FilmStew.com | Comment

De Seve brings together the stories, documenting them and not drilling rhetorically.

October 8, 2004 Full Review Source: San Diego Union-Tribune | Comment
San Diego Union-Tribune
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Audience Reviews for Tying the Knot

Not one for crying during films, I confess that a tear welled in my eye on more than one occasion while watching this documentary on the societal constructs of wedlock, and the discrimination against same-sex marriage. Because of the stance the film takes, many people will be turned off to the subject matter. As a

June 10, 2011
FrizzDrop

Super Reviewer

Even a documentary has to be able to tell a narrative story successfully. Tying the Knot doesn't. It skips from one story to another, jumping in at arbitrary points and then leaving without properly resolution. It does take a stab at being useful by beginning to explore how marriage has changed over the centuries,

January 25, 2011
Jason Vargo

Super Reviewer

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