Love Me Or Leave Me (1955)




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This film tells the true story of 1930s torch-singer Ruth Etting, here played by Doris Day. While working in a dime-a-dance joint, Ruth is discovered by Chicago racketeer Martin "The Gimp" Snyder. The smitten Snyder exerts pressure on his show-biz connections, and before long Ruth is a star.
Classics , Drama , Musical & Performing Arts , Romance
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Doris Day
as Ruth Etting
James Cagney
as Marty Snyder
Cameron Mitchell
as Johnny Alderman
Robert Keith
as Bernard V. Loomis
Tom Tully
as Frobisher
Harry Bellaver
as Georgie
Richard Gaines
as Paul Hunter
Peter Leeds
as Fred Taylor
Claude Stroud
as Eddie Fulton
John Harding
as Greg Trent
Audrey Young
as Jingle Girl
Otto Reichow
as Bouncer
Henry Kulky
as Bouncer
Jay Adler
as Orry
Mauritz Hugo
as Irate customer
Veda Ann Borg
as Hostess
Audrey Wilder
as Jingle Girl
Benny Burt
as Stage manager
Bob Carson
as Mr. Brelston, Radio Station Manager
James Drury
as Assistant director
Richard Simmons
as Dance Director
Chet Brandenburg
as Chauffeur
Michael Kostrick
as Assistant Director
Roy Engel
as 1st Reporter/Propman
John Damler
as 2nd Reporter
Dale Van Sickel
as Stage-Hand
John Day
as Stage-Hand
Larri Thomas
as Chorus girl
Patti Nestor
as Chorus Girl
Winona Smith
as Chorus Girl
Dick Simmons
as Dance director
Shirley Wilson
as Chorus Girl
Paul McGuire
as Drapery man
Barry Regan
as Guard
Jimmy Cross
as Photographer
Randolph Henry
as Photographer
Chet Brandenberg
as Chauffeur
Robert Carson
as Mr. Brelston Radio Station Manager
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Critic Reviews for Love Me Or Leave Me

All Critics (6)

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Full Review… | February 17, 2009
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Full Review… | January 10, 2004
Chicago Reader
Top Critic

Truthfully told musical saga of '20s singer Ruth Etting with fine turn by Doris Day; Cagney eats up scenery.

March 22, 2008

Doris was called on to act dramatically and not just sing and be the girl-next-door.

Full Review… | August 13, 2007
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Audience Reviews for Love Me Or Leave Me

Not bad, not bad. This film is certainly helped by Jimmy Cagney late in his career. I've never been a huge fan of Doris Day's acting abilities but she does okay here. Familiar soundtrack as well.

John Ballantine
John Ballantine

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Overall alright. However, why on earth would Ruth help Marty in the end after all the negative things he did to her?

Nick Krolikowski
Nick Krolikowski

I would like to give this a higher rating, but the story itself is lacking. This is the first movie of Doris Day I've seen, and she is spectacular. It's not often that I am blow away, but when she sang her first song, I was in awe. What a woman! Unfortunately, there is such a thing as too much of a good thing. Too often the story stopped dead for her character's performances. There is no reason not to showcase her talents, but the performances did not advance the story nor develop the characters, and there were so many! The scenes with the actual story, though, were great. James Cagney put in a wonderful performance as a gangster holding on to a fading era. I just wish they had either cut back on the songs or worked them better into the story.

Andrew K
Andrew K

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