Breaking Upwards (2010)

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Their marriage turning stifling after just four years, a young New York couple attempts to escape their ennui by carefully strategizing their own breakup. Blurring the lines between fiction and reality, real-life couple Daryl Wein and Zoe Lister-Jones star as themselves in order to offer an unguarded exploration of young love, lust, and the hardships of codependency. By exploring alternatives to monogamy, creating arbitrary rules for their relationship, and doing everything in their power to … More

Rating: Unrated
Genre: Drama, Romance
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Written By: Peter Duchan, Zoe Lister Jones, Daryl Wein
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On DVD: Oct 12, 2010
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Critic Reviews for Breaking Upwards

All Critics (19) | Top Critics (11)

Scenes meant to play as breezy and hip are more often just annoying.

Full Review… | July 15, 2010
Boston Globe
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Breaking Upwards has its amusing and touching moments, but we're left wondering just what we're supposed to make of it all.

Full Review… | April 15, 2010
San Francisco Chronicle
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Comes knocking at the door like a wolf in sheep's clothing, draping reality in a fictional romantic comedy about a twentysomething NYC couple named Daryl and Zoe whose relationship is coming apart.

Full Review… | April 9, 2010
Los Angeles Times
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While Alex Bergman's photography is often impressive, Wein's editing has the short attention span of a Hollywood movie, without the accompanying cocaine rush.

Full Review… | April 8, 2010
Salon.com
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Much ado about a very rote situation, with a hammy excess of New York Jewish shtick (lead offender: Andrea Martin as Zoe's kvetching mom).

Full Review… | April 7, 2010
Entertainment Weekly
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Watching this movie is no more interesting than talking to any random New York couple about what makes them tick.

Full Review… | April 2, 2010
New York Post
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Audience Reviews for Breaking Upwards

A couple who are bored with their relationship incrementally break up.
Breaking Upwards is a charming, realistic depiction of a couple who are right for each other even though it feels wrong. Strong performances by director/editor/co-writer Daryl Wein and co-writer Zoe Lister Jones carry the film, which has a wry wit and some smart dialogue. And the last shot is truly heart-breaking.
There were few things about the film that I didn't like, but they were so essential to the story that they were impossible to ignore. At the beginning, the stated reason for their break up is that they're both "bored." I recall David Thewlis's monologue from Mike Leigh's Naked in which he rants against people who are bored despite having untold possibilities for engagement: "You have the universe explained to you, and you're bored with it," he says disdainfully. Equally, I recall a former teacher telling me, "If students say they're bored, then they're boring people." I have little patience for characters and real people telling me they're bored, so I was hoping that during the increments of the break-up, past issues would crop up so that we can understand that there is a deeper reason for their split. Most people in their early twenties haven't been hurt enough to deserve ennui.
Also, while on their days off, Daryl and Zoe have no shortage of other suitors. In the construction of the film's plot, this seems like an easy way out. Most often, the choices in real life aren't between a semi-fulfilling relationship and attention from new, flawed suitors (flawed certainly in Zoe's case, but not so much in Daryl's); the choices in real life are between a semi-fulfilling relationship and loneliness, which is a condition that motivates people much more than the lack of fulfillment one finds from fucking one's co-star in a bad off-Broadway play. I wanted to see these characters more vulnerable without each other, which would have made the ending of their relationship so much harder to stomach.
Overall, there is a lot to like about Breaking Upwards, and during all of my future (and one of my past) failed relationships, I'm going to use the phrase "Let's not break up; let's break upwards," but as a film, this indie comedy falls into the trapping tropes that most films of its ilk fall into, making it good enough to make me wish it were so much better.

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Jim Hunter

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A stagnant couple orchestrates an incremental break-up, spending less and less time with each other to cushion the emotional blow. This is a legit indie: low budget, mundane humor, leads who are attractive but certainly not glossy and shiny enough so that the audience has expectations. When Daryl and Zoe finally end it, it really hurts.

aliceinpunderland
Alice Shen

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A realistic depiction of both the hardships and growth of a breaking relationship.

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Shawn Ewing

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