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We Don't Live Here Anymore

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We Don't Live Here Anymore (2004)

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Reviews Counted:33

Fresh:24

Rotten:9

Average Rating:6.8/10

Consensus: A potent portrait of two couples with broken marriages.

Rated: R

Runtime: 1 hr 43 mins

Genre: Dramas

Theatrical Release:Aug 13, 2004 Limited

Box Office: $1,904,214

Synopsis: Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a... Based on two works by Andre Dubus, WE DON'T LIVE HERE ANYMORE is a sexy and provocative drama about married life and its discontents. Keenly observed, the film charts the amorous affair of a married man with his best friend’s wife and how their liaison upsets the delicate balance of relationships, culminating in a fling between their spouses. Unfolding from four alternating viewpoints, the story captures the paradoxical actions of loving parents determined to save marriages they secretly long to escape, as the couples struggle through their emotional and sexual entanglement. With a wry, knowing humor, WE DON’T LIVE HERE ANYMORE reveals the perverse logic of infidelity -- and the complicity, denial and occasional cruelty that can accompany it. College instructors in a small university town, Jack Linden and Hank Evans have an easygoing friendship involving runs between classes and drinks at the pub after work. Jack’s wife Terry is best friends with Hank’s Edith, and the four have dinner parties where, once the kids have gone to bed, the wine flows freely and the record collection is in constant rotation. But the Evanses and the Lindens are not the happy couples they appear to be. For Jack and Terry, the everyday tribulations of being parents of young children trying to make ends meet have taken their toll on the once passionate couple. And Hank, a self-absorbed writer at heart, is fond of his daughter and family life, but not all that interested in monogamy, it turns out. Trying to find a way to make her marriage work under the new circumstances, Edith turns to Jack for comfort. What begins as a playfully lascivious affair erupts into a season of infidelity, leaving all four to sift through the emotional wreckage to find their way home. -- © Warner Independent Pictures [More]

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Starring: Mark Ruffalo, Naomi Watts, Peter Krause, Laura Dern

Director: John Curran

Director: John Curran
Screenwriter: Larry Gross
Producer: Harvey Kahn, Jonas Goodman, Naomi Watts
Composer: Michael Convertino
Studio: Warner Independent

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  • Jack and Terry. Hank and Edith. They're married couples and best friends with much in common. Jack and Hank are professors at Cedar County College. Terry and Edith are stay-at-home moms. And Jack and Edith are secret lovers.
  • Mark Ruffalo, Laura Dern, Peter Krause and Naomi Watts play the interlocked foursome, pushing their characters into uncharted realms of anger, confrontation and lust - and making decisions that may or may not let love slip away.
  • Source: Warner Home Video
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    I was fully absorbed in the characters and their casually outrageous behavior.

    Full Review Source: New York Observer | comment Comment
    09/09/04
    Andrew Sarris
    Andrew Sarris
    New York Observer
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    Watts manages to make her Edith seem genuinely remorseful about her actions but unable to stop, and Ruffalo puts a believable hint of guilt in Jack's face that he carries through the film.

    Full Review Source: Arizona Republic | comment Comment
    09/02/04
    Bill Muller
    Bill Muller
    Arizona Republic
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    Earnest, overbearing and fully depressing, We Don't Live Here Anymore features a quartet of fine performances that are somewhat undermined by the numbing, one-note tone of the entire enterprise.

    Full Review Source: Detroit News | comment Comment
    08/27/04
    Tom Long
    Tom Long
    Detroit News
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    Painful, powerful adaptation of two of Andre Dubus' beautifully frank stories.

    Full Review Source: Denver Post | comment Comment
    08/27/04
    Lisa Kennedy
    Lisa Kennedy
    Denver Post
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    Curran shows us characters whose lives have gone stale but doesn't provide sufficient payoff to justify the suffering.

    Full Review Source: Denver Rocky Mountain News | comment Comment
    08/27/04
    Robert Denerstein
    Robert Denerstein
    Denver Rocky Mountain News
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    It's an honest, revealing and provocative look at the sort of people we think we know, but in reality, rarely do.

    Full Review Source: Detroit Free Press | comment Comment
    08/27/04
    Terry Lawson
    Terry Lawson
    Detroit Free Press
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    Dramatically slack, the story isn't driven by plot so much as by the slow revelation of character.

    Full Review Source: Houston Chronicle | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Eric Harrison
    Eric Harrison
    Houston Chronicle
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    An intricate drama that derives tragedy from emotional indifference, immaturity and fatigue, qualities that have spelled doom for more than a few marriages.

    Full Review Source: Dallas Morning News | comment Comment
    08/26/04
    Chris Vognar
    Chris Vognar
    Dallas Morning News
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    Scene by scene, the movie is precise, vibrant, and, for all its turmoil, moving.

    Full Review Source: New Yorker | comment Comment
    08/24/04
    David Denby
    David Denby
    New Yorker
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    If you can deal with the muddy footprints, the mess is worth it.

    Full Review Source: Toronto Star | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Geoff Pevere
    Geoff Pevere
    Toronto Star
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    The acting is fervent, and the insights cut deep.

    Full Review Source: San Francisco Chronicle | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Mick LaSalle
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    San Francisco Chronicle
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    A bookish picture without a book's depth.

    Full Review Source: Globe and Mail | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Rick Groen
    Rick Groen
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    Inadequate emotionally and psychologically.

    Full Review Source: Boston Globe | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Wesley Morris
    Wesley Morris
    Boston Globe
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    The movie may leave its audience feeling a little battered ... Still, the film's honesty, along with its refusal to pander to Hollywood happy endings, is well worth the beating.

    Full Review Source: Washington Post | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Michael O'Sullivan
    Michael O'Sullivan
    Washington Post
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    Too desultory.

    Full Review Source: Chicago Sun-Times | comment Comment
    08/20/04
    Roger Ebert
    Roger Ebert
    Chicago Sun-Times
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    The film astutely finds a vivid personality for each character.

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    08/20/04
    Stephen Hunter
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    Washington Post
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    08/19/04
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    A crackling, claustrophobic chamber piece.

    Full Review Source: Philadelphia Inquirer | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Steven Rea
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    Philadelphia Inquirer
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    Usually American marital problems are left to the soap operas; it's nice to see them tackled by experts, piercing personas and peeling open hearts.

    Full Review Source: Chicago Tribune | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Michael Wilmington
    Michael Wilmington
    Chicago Tribune
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    A movie as empty as its title. A lot of good acting is going on, but there's nobody home.

    Full Review Source: Atlanta Journal-Constitution | comment Comment
    08/19/04
    Eleanor Ringel Gillespie
    Eleanor Ringel Gillespie
    Atlanta Journal-Constitution
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