John Roberts Director Gena Rowlands Ivy Actor Tony Shalhoub Misha Vilyenkov Actor Cheech Marin Ignacio Actor Bruce Davison Dr. Reingold Actor Jay Mohr Benny, Voice of Paulie Actor Trini Alvarado Adult Marie Alweather Actor Buddy Hackett Artie Actor Hallie Kate Eisenberg Marie Alweather Actor Matt Craven Warren Alweather Actor Bill Cobbs Virgil the Janitor Actor Tia Texada Ruby, Voice of Lupe Actor Laura Harrington Lila Alweather Actor Laurie Craig Writer Mark Gordon Producer Gary Levinsohn Producer Ginny Nugent Executive Producer Allison Lyon Segan Producer Michele Weisler Co-Producer John Debney Original Music Tony Pierce-Roberts Cinematographer Bruce Cannon Film Editing Sarah Halley Finn Casting Risa Bramon Garcia Casting Randi Hiller Casting J. Dennis Washington Production Design Thomas T. Taylor Art Director Denise Pizzini Set Decoration Mary Zophres Costume Design