Nancy Meyers Director, Writer, Producer Cameron Diaz Amanda Actor Kate Winslet Iris Actor Jude Law Graham Actor Jack Black Miles Actor Eli Wallach Arthur Abbott Actor Edward Burns Ethan Actor Rufus Sewell Jasper Actor Shannyn Sossamon Maggie Actor Miffy Englefield Sophie Actor Emma Pritchard Olivia Actor Sarah Parish Hannah Actor Bill Macy Ernie Actor Shelley Berman Norman Actor Kathryn Hahn Bristol Actor John Krasinski Ben Actor Suzanne Farwell Executive Producer Bruce A. Block Producer Dean Cundy Cinematographer Joe Hutshing Film Editing Hans Zimmer Original Music Marlene Stewart Costume Design Jon Hutman Production Design Jane Jenkins Casting Janet Hirshenson Casting Michelle Guish Casting Dan Webster Art Director David Smith Set Decoration Cindy Carr Set Decoration