Howard Deutch Director Jack Lemmon Felix Ungar Actor Walter Matthau Oscar Madision Actor Christine Baranski Thelma Actor Barnard Hughes Beaumont Actor Jonathan Silverman Brucey Madison Actor Jean Smart Holly Actor Lisa Waltz Hannah Ungar Actor Mary Beth Peil Felice Actor Doris Belack Blanche Madison Povich Actor Ellen Geer Frances Ungar Melnick Actor Jay O. Sanders Leroy Actor Rex Linn Jay Jay Actor Peggy Miley Millie, the Nosher Actor Alice Ghostley Esther, the Whiner Actor Mary Fogerty Flossie, the Grouch Actor Rebecca Schull Wanda, the Vixen Actor Florence Stanley Hattie Actor Lou Cutell Abe Actor Neil Simon Writer, Producer Robert W. Cort Producer David Madden Producer Elena Spiotta Associate Producer Alan Silvestri Original Music Jamie Anderson Cinematographer Seth Flaum Film Editing Dan Bishop Production Design Alex Rosenberg Casting Jane Shannon-Smith Casting