Dec 14, 2018
Movies like this can easily offend people who don't share similar beliefs with the core characters, so please take this review with a grain of salt if you happen to be one-sided about certain topics. Boy Erased is one of the most moving films I've had the pleasure of seeing in 2018. Touchy subjects like these come around quite often, but I feel they are left unseen or forgotten due to people being unsure about the subject matter. Personally, I'm a filmgoer who is up for any kind of sort/visual so as I said, this review should be taken with a grain of salt for some. Here's why I believe, that if for nothing else, Boy Erased is easily one of the best films of the year and deserves much more attention.
Told in a non-linear fashion, Boy Erased follows Jared (Lucas Hedges) as he discovers that he is a gay man, but is not accepted by his father, who also happens to be a Pastor. Forced into gay conversion therapy, Jared comes to terms with who he is, whether he is able to change or whether he even wants to, and also realizes how this situation affects others families. This is a difficult film to sit through in terms of emotion, because you're clearly rooting for Jared throughout the entire film and hope that he makes the decisions that make himself happy, but the back and forth he has with his parents is genuinely moving, which may be due to the sheer power that Nicole Kidman and Russell Crowe bring to their roles.
I've always been a fan of both Crowe and Kidman, but Crowe, in particular, gives one of his best performances in years. Being a disappointed father who has to come to terms with something he truly doesn't believe in was absolutely heartbreaking, but also infuriating, due to who it affects. Personally, although the story revolves around the character of Jared, I found his father to be the most interesting portion of this film. Although I disliked him at times, he felt the most authentic. He never strayed away from his beliefs and that only deepened his character. From where his character is at the beginning of the film to where he ends up, I found Crowe's performance to be the best that this film had to offer.
That being said, Lucas Hedges also delivers a stellar performance here and deserves all of his awards consideration once again. He has become an actor who's slightly type-casted in the "troubled boy" category, but it really is his strength and he plays to it here incredibly. I don't know if he was able to relate to this character as he was portraying him, but it sure seems that way. I was engaged from start to finish, solely due to how well the performances worked for me. The premise itself is also very engaging and moving, but it really comes down to how real these characters feel, which I had no complaints in that regard.
Overall, Boy Erased may not be the film for everyone, due to some of the beliefs that some may not follow or agree with, but as a film that's loosely based on a true story, I think it's one of the best made movies this year. From the dour tone and score to go along with it, to the realistic performances, to the screenplay that felt raw and authentic, I found myself in tears by the time the credits began to roll. The emotional journey that each of these characters goes on is worth the price of admission alone. I loved every minute of this film and I highly recommend checking it out.
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