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Season 1 – The Ultimatum: Queer Love

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Five new couples, made up of women and non-binary people, are at a crossroads in their relationship.
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The Ultimatum: Queer Love — Season 1

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Christina Cauterucci Slate 05/24/2023
Riveting love-to-hate television, a showcase of some of the worst and weirdest impulses of queers in our extended community that nonetheless manages to make some incisive points... Go to Full Review
Daisy Jones Guardian 05/24/2023
3/5
When queerness does appear on our screens, it often comes with its own set of well-worn tropes. Thankfully, The Ultimatum: Queer Love appears to dodge many of them. Go to Full Review
Carla Monfort Espinof 01/02/2024
3/5
One of those perfect shows to disconnect and watch several episodes at a time; it has its share of gossip and bickering, and the different character profiles give rise to more than one funny moment (for those watching, at least). [Full review in Spanish] Go to Full Review
Stephanie Morgan Common Sense Media 05/31/2023
What makes the show so notable, though, is its use of real-life couples. There are people you'll root for, and maybe against, and couples you'll be sure are doomed from the start. Go to Full Review
Rebecca Long Rejected Pitches (Substack) 05/26/2023
B-
There’s still mess, to be sure. But for once, as a dating reality show connoisseur, I don’t feel like all the participants are miles behind in terms of emotional intelligence. Go to Full Review
Samantha Allen them. 05/25/2023
Perhaps it’s a compliment to our community that we’re incapable of producing Vanderpump levels of empty-headed telegenic drama. Go to Full Review
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Ryan H. @RyGuy Jun 27 I enjoy watching these Ultimatum show with my girlfriend but the “queer love” added a fun element to an already entertaining show. Much love to Xander! See more Ed 06/28/2023 I was a little hesitant watching "Consensual cheating: the Series" but from the first episode it seemed like the people and production were genuinely trying to form real long-term connections with these people, which I appreciated. I actually made an effort to learn the names, which I don't normally do (advice: Netflix's article was useful for this). I haven't watched any reality dating shows for that reason and because it seems like a participants are always super stereotypical and concerned about intimacy. However, I believe The Ultimatum mitigated that issue. A quote that stood out for me from Rae's Instagram is, "Can we all laugh at the fact that 10 of us went on a reality tv show instead of going to couples therapy?" While I believe the participants definitely got something out of the experience, I feel like there could have been better solutions. For me, the value of watching the show came from the social experiment aspect, kind of like the circle. My takeaways are 1: talk is cheap. I heard a lot of couples repeatedly telling the other, "I love you" but I just couldn't see where they were coming from. 2: three weeks is WAY too short. If a second season with guys came out, I would definitely consider watching it after I have emotionally recharged from this season. The reason I rated this series five stars is because it challenged me and made me think about what a good relationship looks like. ***Spoiler Zone!*** On ultimatum day, I was honestly surprised how many couples stayed together, since I could see various problems in their relationships, communication, and insurmountable compromises that needed to be made. Although, I suppose it makes sense to want to appear your best on TV. I honestly predicted everyone would break up. I thought Yoly and Mal had the best chance of sticking together because of how much growth Mal made and how their communication improved, but alas. I was also worried that Aussie and Sam would break up because of how difficult their communication was at times, but I was pleasantly surprised. See more Ebahi O 06/08/2023 Top tier drama, entertainment, educational, mental health awareness. I can't say enough. This was the best reality tv I've watched. See more Maaike v 05/29/2023 I really like this show, usually I dislike reality tv, but this is super interesting. I am very surprised by all the hate for Vanessa, the ultimatum wasn't her idea, so it makes sense that she doesn't really know what she wants, but she tries to handle it in a positive way. Lexi seems very annoying to me, she is very desperate to get married, but there seems to be little love for the people she want's to get married to. I think she really doesn't care who is going to say yes as long as someone does, so she will choose whoever is most likely to do so. See more Jen W 05/25/2023 Extremely entertaining!!! Lexi is a queen!!! Vanessa is one of the worst people I have ever seen on a reality show. THE SHOW IS WORTH THE WATCH!!!!!! See more Read all reviews
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Episodes

Episode 1 Aired May 24, 2023 The Break Up After a last night together, the couples begin to co-mingle, looking around for marriage material, outside of their original relationships. Details Episode 2 Aired May 24, 2023 The Choice Excitement and anxiety brew as everyone forges fresh connections and selects new partners; one commitment-wary person's motivations spark controversy. Details Episode 3 Aired May 24, 2023 Newlyweds After talking through issues from bathroom storage to bedtime massages, five new couples emerge; now it's time to stress-test a trial marriage. Details Episode 4 Aired May 24, 2023 Group Nights Out Two couples find closeness and comfort, while others struggle with tension and fights; romance heats up at home for one pair. Details Episode 5 Aired May 31, 2023 In and Out of Love After the cocktail hour, some bonds are strengthened, while others crumble; the couples meet with friends and family and spend their final night together. Details Episode 6 Aired May 31, 2023 The Changeover Revelations are shared during the changeover; a one-night stand may break one couple; someone new appears to come between another couple. Details Episode 7 Aired May 31, 2023 Cocktails and Confrontation From discussing gender roles to rekindling sparks, the couples try to reconnect; one person's lingering emotions casts doubt on two relationships. Details Episode 8 Aired May 31, 2023 Is Love Enough As one person hits a breaking point and another struggles to process her feelings, a question looms about whether love alone is enough to sustain a marriage. Details Episode 9 Aired Jun 7, 2023 Ultimatum Day With Ultimatum Day upon them, the couples make their life-changing decisions — who will walk away newly engaged, and who will walk away alone? Details Episode 10 Aired Jun 7, 2023 The Reunion Shocking updates, hard truths and powerful realizations come to light when the group reunites for the first time since the conclusion of the experience. Details
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Season Info

Executive Producer
Chris Coelen, Eric Detwiler, Sarah Dillistone, Stephanie Boyriven
Network
Netflix
Rating
TV-MA
Genre
Reality, Romance, LGBTQ+
Original Language
English
Release Date
May 24, 2023
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