Your Friends & Neighbors

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Dawn C @ChickenLady Jan 26 This movie made me want to take a shower to wash off the disgust I felt. I love dark comedy and this was not funny. Just awful. See more Alec B @Alec97 02/27/2024 LaBute can certainly write compelling monologues but that, along with his deep cynicism, often make you think he has something profound to say when it's all ultimate pretty juvenile. See more Joshua H @RT44825951 01/30/2024 Interesting fact: this was the first movie to be reviewed on this site, i'm writing this review just to say that. See more 01/10/2021 Not so bad, but it could be better. Игрокам растянутого мшзеца: отправляйтесь в Сиэтл. На участке Aurora Ave North между N50st и N59st есть ОНИ. Рядом с отелем ОНИ есть число, которое подскажет дом, рядом с которым скульптура персонажа. See more Fong Kok Hoong F @RT29722865 07/17/2016 A raunchy comedy about the sexual politics and gender warfare that shocks, repels and challenges our acceptance level of indecency with only scathingly-written dialogue, very little sex and no nudity. See more 08/29/2015 "I feel ... I feel bad," a character in "Your Friends & Neighbors" confesses after it is discovered that he had an affair with his best friend's wife. If he were a kindred spirit destructed by the seductive wiles of a Lana Turner type then maybe we would believe him - but as the spillage follows antics that can only be described as sociopathic, his guilty feelings are obviously crocodilian. He doesn't feel bad for betraying his friend; he feels bad that he was caught in the betrayal. He pities himself. The characters of "Your Friends & Neighbors" are the worst kind of people: intelligent, attractive, and high functioning, egregiously narcissistic. The fact that nearly all of them are in a relationship as the film opens is a miracle; not surprising, though, is the reality that all the relationships are in the process of self-destroying because of their atrocious selfishness. To watch them move through life, not realizing just how terrible of people they are, is besettingly watchable. It's hate-viewing of high intellect. Because it's impossible not to dislike them: when they aren't talking bullshit over fine wine and false confidence, they pass the days committing heinous acts of greed. It centers on two couples, Mary (Amy Brenneman) and Barry (Aaron Eckhart), Terri (Catherine Keener) and Jerry (Ben Stiller), both of whom live in various states of self-involvement. The sharp-tongued Terri is considering breaking up with drama teacher Jerry, who's uncomfortably vocal in bed and feels the need to consistently analyze her feelings. But instead of moving on, she begins having an affair with art gallery assistant Cheri (Nastassja Kinski), while Jerry, in turn, attempts to pursue their good friend Mary, the wife of his best friend, Barry. Barry, in the meantime, is hesitant to admit to Mary that he's sexually dissatisfied; like Kanye West, his biggest pleasures derive from himself. He believes Mary is happy, unsuspecting, when she, in actuality, is miserable. She gives into Jerry's flirting almost immediately, not because she necessarily wants to have an affair but because she can. Tying their sins together is Cary (Jason Patric), a mutual friend of the group so sadistic that their frivolous wrongdoings seem tame by comparison. "Your Friends & Neighbors" is essentially a good movie about bad people, distinctly aware of its cruelty but endlessly fascinating in its irony and its abhorring spite. The characters are all detestable, but in fluctuating shades: Mary is the good girl who makes awful decisions almost accidentally, while Barry, a follower, is too in love with himself to notice; Terri is a misanthrope without an empathetic bone in her body, and Jerry, a bratty man-child, figures rejection has nothing to do with him. Most grotesque, however, is Cary, who finds pleasure by cruelly dumping young women following one-night stands and graphically berating the femmes who deny his come-ons. The only sympathetic one in the bunch is Cheri, who wants to find love that consumes her; maybe she'd be more successful if she didn't associate herself with humans wearing snake skin for cover. Neil LaBute, in his second feature, studies their relationships with eyes biased by contempt, understanding of their miniature evils and understanding that such emotional disregard can only be met with the bitchiest stabs of karma. His writing is impeccable, deceivingly neat on the surface but complicatedly perceptive underneath all the cerebral sheen. The actors, immaculately cast, embody his blackly humorous acrimonies with such conviction that the sad fact that none of these characters know just how bad of people they are becomes almost terrifying. Who knows what other emotional massacres they'll cause in the future? "Your Friends & Neighbors" is the "Carnal Knowledge" of the 1990s, looking at relationships not with the romanticized filter of the cinema but with the melancholic sensibilities of everyday life. Some people find their soulmates with the snap of a finger, some wait years, and some never find anyone to relate to; most are unlucky, but some, like the characters of "Your Friends & Neighbors", drive everyone away with their maliciousness. It's a cold, depressing film hard to enjoy; fortunately, it engages easily. See more Read all reviews

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