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April 15, 2018
Feel the cold embrace of Blue Valentine.

Derek Cianfrance directs his romantic drama masterpiece with his 2010 indie movie Blue Valentine. It's a heartbreaking tale of love and loss in the real world. Everything is as realistic as possible from the sets, costumes, situations, arcs, dialogue, and acting. Cianfrance captures a couple struggling to rekindle the flames of their original love.

Blue Valentine is the most visually stunning romance film I may have ever seen. Cianfrance utilizes the most lovely color scheme for Blue Valentine. The early relationship sees lots of passionate crimson reds, while the middle lavishes a few dejected greys, then finally the loveless end is met with chilling blues. You have to see Blue Valentine.

Michelle Williams is superb as a nurse and mother named Cindy. She is radiant in her joy and absolutely devastating in her depiction of depression. It's a demanding role that Williams absolutely stuns as she plays the charming new girlfriend and the exhausted working mother convincingly. You really feel sorry for her situation. You want her to love and be happy.

Ryan Gosling proves he can act on a deeper level in a romance film like Blue Valentine after his notable performance in The Notebook. He portrays a man struggling to make a living wage going from mover to painter. His character Dean represents a decent man that wants love, but cannot grasp how to keep it. Gosling is so empathetic as Dean. He must pull off flirtatious boyfriend, loving husband, dutiful father, violent drunkard, apologetic spouse, and desperate every man all in one multi-faceted role. Gosling is glorious in Blue Valentine.

Blue Valentine is an honest romance film that marries heart-rending drama with tragic sadness. It is a poignant testament to beautiful desire and disastrous amour. Blue Valentine makes you lose yourself emotionally in Dean and Cindy's loveless marriage.
April 5, 2018
This was nothing more than an average romance movie. I like Ryan Gosling a lot as an actor though.
February 15, 2018
Director Derek Cianfrance sharply and roughly manages to pull together a tuff tale about the struggle of relationships and the inevitability of exhaustion in marriage, as well as the value of commitment and the dedication of the early years, all successfully combined for the benefit of a touchingly hard breaking story, and with the great presence of Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams to complete the journey throughout the painful reality of love.
½ February 3, 2018
The most HONEST love story I've ever watched. What I love about the film starring Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams is it doesn't just end with the wedding and the happily ever after. The sweet romance and active sex that comes with new couples is juxtaposed by the constant fighting and challenges of married life. The film goes back and forth between these two timelines, and the contrast is completely jarring, jumping from a sweet kiss to shouting and slapping in public. From the soft and sweet whispers of "I love you" to the deafening "F*ck you! I hate you!", Blue Valentine will leave you conflicted with your emotions. Some scenes will make you say
"Ryan Gosling's so sweet... Michelle Williams is so lucky...," while another will make you rethink your future plans about getting married. It's not for the soft of heart, I admit, and it's raw depiction of romance is more similar to 500 Days of Summer and Allesandra de Rosi's indie flick "#12" than it is to the Notebook. While escapism is good for stress, too much can get tiresome and raise some high expectations with your partner. If you like an honest love story for a change, try it out. Otherwise, just stick with KDrama and formula rom-coms.
January 3, 2018
A relentlessly brutal and realistic portrayal of a failing marriage, featuring standout performances by Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams. Probably not the best movie for a date though.
Super Reviewer
October 9, 2017
Back in 2004 when Ryan Gosling was still a relative unknown, he caught a break by starring in a little love story called The Notebook. It was a huge hit among the ladies and he charmed the knickers off many a bored housewife. Needless to say, Gosling became a star overnight and he developed a very enthusiastic female fanbase. Try asking a lot of women, or even some men for that matter, what they think is a good romantic movie and The Notebook will generally get a shout-out. As a little social experiment, I'd like to offer up an alternative to those who love Gosling, The Notebook and those who love to see romance triumph over adversity by suggesting they watch Blue Valentine. It's the polar opposite of that sentimental and clichéd pap and could induce nightmares to those of a more sensitive nature when it comes to how relationships are depicted on screen.

Plot: Dean (Ryan Gosling) and Cindy (Michelle Williams) are a young, working class couple who finds themselves at a testing juncture in their marriage. Cindy has ambitions and looking for more from life while Dean has remained the same person and shows little chance of changing. This puts a lot of pressure on their relationship as resentment and bitterness begin to appear and the dissolution of their marriage becomes an inevitability.

Apparently borrowing from the Tom Waits album of the same name, Derek Cianfrance's Blue Valentine is a perfectly fitting title. It's a contradiction in terms of how something can be so sweet and beautiful yet also so cruel and depressing. That is the tone and exploration of Cianfrance's tragic love story. As we are introduced to the lives of Dean and Cindy we witness their courtship and their marriage while it's juxtaposed with their breakup. The earlier moments of their relationship is filled with happiness, hope and genuine love and affection while the latter times are so deeply painful and emotionally devastating. The real stroke of genius here, though, is in Cianfrance's decision to avoid a linear structure. He intercuts with opposing time-frames which allows him to dissect the whole meat and bones of these two characters' lives together with a detailed analysis of events and behaviours. As a result of the non-linear approach we, as viewers, are taken on a rollercoaster of emotions and given a fly-on-the-wall experience of this affair that's told with an unflinching realism.

Alongside co-writer's Joey Curtis and Cami Delavigne, Cianfrance achieves a meticulous balance to the film. It could have been so easy to side with one character or the other but as we see these people (warts and all) we come to understand that neither one of them is solely to blame for the breakdown of their relationship. I found myself taking it from a male perspective and seeing Cindy as cold, distant and unloving but then I could see it from her perspective and how Dean refused to grow or challenge himself. As Cindy wants more for her life and career, Dean is content with simply being a husband and father. Neither one is in the wrong but, unfortunately, they become incompatible due to their individual wants and differing needs.

In order for it all to come together, though, it demands commited performances. And that's exactly what we get from Gosling and Williams. The verisimilitude of this relationship is owed to the magnificent work that two leads put into it. In order to achieve the requisite authenticity, Gosling and Williams improvised a lot of their lines and even rented an apartment together for a month where they shared the stresses of daily life by living within the same meagre budget of their characters, going shopping, cooking meals, sharing the same bathroom and exploring different ways of picking fights with each other. Their commitment and approach to the roles really pays off and they are entirely convincing in their fluctuating ranges of emotion. Williams was rightly afforded an Oscar nomination for her work (losing out to Natalie Portman for Black Swan) but Gosling was disgracefully overlooked. This is one of those films where the performances are inseparable and it remains some of the very finest work both Williams and Gosling have delivered.


A very bleak but tender anatomy of a relationship that is both heartwarming and heartbreaking. Boasting extraordinary performances from the leads, it's so sobering and realistically depicted that it's uncomfortable to watch. Never have I seen a relationship on screen that's depicted with such brutal honesty with a simple viewing being enough to save some couples a fortune in relationship counselling. It may not be the best film for a romantic evening with your other half but it's the best film about the challenges that a long term relationship brings. Outstanding work by all involved.

Mark Walker
½ August 5, 2017
Love, invincible in all battles. But can love survive peace? Is pure love enough? Remarkable performance by Gosling, putting drama at it's best.
July 14, 2017
Wow, this movie is brutal! This film depicts a real life marriage dissolving. This hit close to home so it tore me apart. This is the truth of relationships. Derek Cianfrance makes you feel like you are just a fly on the wall in their relationship. Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams both deliver heartbreaking performances that will leave you broken at the end of this film.
July 9, 2017
Blue Valentine is the story of a sad, tragic falling apart of a relationship. Derek Cianfrance directs this emotional film and gets great performances out of Gosling and Williams. This movie fucked me up a little, it's very depressing but worth a watch.
June 17, 2017
Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling tear up the screen !
June 5, 2017
The way Ciafrance balances between past and present, technically and emotionally, is something else. The chemistry between the two protagonists is also incredible. A film about real life romance, a love story indeed.
May 25, 2017
The closeness to real life is frightening and makes the movie hard to watch. An excellent portrayal of young love and the failings of a relationship due to the weight of real life. Some might find the movie slow paced and boring.
May 23, 2017
A gem of a film. Hard to take the reality it shows and a perfect blend of drama and romance. Gosling's performance can sometimes be mistaken by real feelings and emotions. Half the time you think you're watching a story unroll, and half the time you're believing in it all. w
April 15, 2017
This movie messed me up.
April 13, 2017
Visceral and so real. Won't be for everyone, but a great change of pace. One of my favourite movies of all time.
March 19, 2017
Did not enjoy this movie at all. Strange storyline with not much substance and depressing feel to it. Would not recommend.
½ March 14, 2017
Intercutting scenes from a fond romantic past and the marriage at the brink of sudden brutal death, Derek Cianfrance attempts to dissect an achingly complex relationship to understand his own parents' breakup. And, Michelle Williams and Ryan Gosling deliver magnificent performances that simply rip hearts.
February 24, 2017
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February 21, 2017
You have his name wrong in the description. It's Dean, not David.
February 21, 2017
Grade - B-
'Blue Valentine' may label itself as a love story, and whilst it technically is, don't go in expecting a sweet romance. Whilst the movie does suffer in terms of how the characters, in particular that of Cindy, keep changing their attitude towards people and the decisions they make, the performances are very good, as is the dialogue and direction. Certainly worth checking out.
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